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Friday, July 25, 2014

Making friends

I am not a popular person.  I never have been. I've always been an outsider.  I just simply don't fit in.
I believe I am a good person.  I am a Christian.  And I try to always be friendly and kind to others.  So, why don't have more friends?  Real friends?  Most of what I have are acquaintances, or online friends.
I think I may know some of the reasons why I don't fit in, and have more friends.
1. I'm a homebody.  I don't get out much.  You have to get out of the house to meet people.
2. I don't do drama.  Life gives me enough natural drama I don't need to create any, or revel in any.
3. I don't party.  You will not find me at a club.  And I don't do drugs, smoke, or drink to excess.  Not my idea of fun.
4. I am also quiet.  A little shy.  Maybe too quiet.  You have to talk to make friends too.
5.  I am not involved in any hobbies, or groups with a social factor to them.  I use to belong to a homeschool group that had a mom's night out once a month.  But I am no longer homeschooling, so I don't feel I fit in there anymore.
All of this boils down to me being boring I think.  I think It's time to stretch myself, and get out more.
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